Do any of these behaviors apply to your relationship? We seldom have any sex or intimacy. We only talk about the kids or work, just daily stuff, nothing important. I feel lonely in this marriage. If it weren't for the kids we would be done. Sometimes I think about having an affair, I never thought that would be me. I love my partner but I just don't feel like I am In Love with him/her. I think marriage can get boring, It's just we can't communicate. We either don't talk or we argue.
Couples bring tough issues to counseling the room! You need a counselor with specialized couples counseling training. Of the 80% of therapists who work with couples ONLY 12% have pursued the training to be qualified to do this hard work. I am specially trained to work with couples.
In my 20+ years of providing therapy to individuals and couples I have learned important lessons. Successful Therapy requires Three Things: Skills, Will and Trust. I bring the Skills, you bring the Will and we all bring the Trust. Trust that Therapy can help your BEST self show up in your relationship.