Anger, resentment, loneliness. What happened? This was not the plan. It was supposed to be different…better. The desire for relief from the hurt evokes thoughts of escape. But, if you follow that path the price-tag for everyone seems too great! But the fact is, this relationship isn’t working. The thought “I can’t keep doing this” is coming more often. Things need to change, but how? After trying everything else, nothing’s really better. It feels hopeless. Yet, the truth is, it’s not hopeless. Many couples go through similar difficulties and struggles, and there is help that can heal and restore your relationship.
As an EFT trained therapist, I specialize in helping couples reconnect and find closeness with each other. EFT stands for Emotionally Focused Therapy. It is empirically substantiated and founded on the premise that we as humans are built for connection and acceptance with one another. Our marital relationship is the main avenue we achieve these needs.
It may be difficult to reach out for help, but when you do you will discover that you're not alone and that 'better' is possible. Many other's have made this step already and their response has been 'why didn't we do this sooner'. It's your turn to have the relationship you've longed for. Call me today.