Puddle jumper. What a great visual—just hopping from one puddle to the next, never really feeling dry. If you experience anxiety, does it feel like just when one worry resolves, another pops up? One situation passes, and before you can exhale, there’s something else making your heart race. Work, relationships, family—anxiety always finds a way in. It’s exhausting, right?

Recognizing the Pattern of Anxiety

Anxiety isn’t random—it follows a predictable pattern. While it might seem like each situation is unique, therapy can help you take a bird’s-eye view and recognize the cycle for what it is: a familiar loop rather than an unstoppable force.

Instead of chasing down each individual worry, therapy helps you step back and say, “I know this pattern. I know what my anxiety does, and I know what to do about it.”

When You Understand Anxiety, It Becomes Less Overwhelming

The goal isn’t to erase stress completely (spoiler alert: that’s impossible). But when you understand how your anxiety operates, it stops feeling so unpredictable. And when something feels predictable, it becomes manageable.

Therapy gives you the tools to:✔️ Recognize anxiety’s patterns instead of feeling blindsided✔️ Develop coping strategies to navigate stress more effectively✔️ Shift your response so anxiety no longer controls your actions✔️ Regain confidence in your ability to handle life’s challenges

You Don’t Have to Keep Jumping from Puddle to Puddle

If you’re tired of constantly managing the next wave of worry, therapy can help you break free from the cycle and take control. Instead of waiting for the next puddle, you’ll build the skills to walk through life with confidence, clarity, and calm.

 

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About the Author: Candice Beaton
Hey, I’m Candice, Founder and Therapist at Modern Therapy CB. I started this practice in 2020 with one goal: to create a space where therapy feels relatable and not overwhelming, like traditional settings sometimes can be. With 16+ years in the mental health field, I’ve learned that real change happens when you feel comfortable enough to just be yourself. I focus on building genuine connections because that’s how I can really get to know your unique challenges and offer meaningful support. I get it—opening up can feel tough. But together, we’ll turn that vulnerability into a powerful, transformative experience. At Modern Therapy CB, I blend science-backed methods with real-life tools that help you manage stress and handle life’s curveballs. My mission is to give you a space where you can talk openly without any judgment. We’ll dig deep to figure out what’s been holding you back and empower you to live with more confidence, clarity, and purpose.

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