We all get stressed during the holiday season. Most of us just deal with whatever is currently pressing on us without thinking about what it’s doing to our bodies and brains. But when you are stressed, powerful chemicals, such as adenine, course through your system to help you battle your demons. The holidays can easily make what would normally be a small issue into something much bigger. Luckily, there are several things you can do to lower your stress during the seasonal rush.

Don’t overspend. One of the biggest stressors of the December holidays comes later when we get the January bills. It has been a tough few years, most people are cutting back, and you may find that spending less just makes sense right now. If you feel that you have to go overboard to enjoy the holiday, you may want to rethink what this time of year is all about. Giving from the heart is the truest gift you can offer. No amount of money is going to make up for the love that you can give to those you care about.

Enjoy every moment possible. For many of us, the holidays are the most wonderful time of the year. The trick is tuning into the good parts while learning to cope with the troublesome. We all have a choice about our reactions, and teaching yourself to take in the good while letting the bad roll off your back is a great gift to give yourself. Don’t let the chaos get to you, and treasure the beauty and love that you find.

Take one minute a day to imagine yourself feeling totally relaxed on top of a majestic mountain. It will help if you can picture the beach and surf crashing below; you can go even deeper by imagining the smell of clear winter air and the sound of holiday music. Even though it is only for a minute (you can take longer if you like), it will lower your heart rate and blood pressure and give you a feeling of peace.

Keep your energy balanced. If you can’t enjoy what the season has to offer, it could mean you are feeling hungry, angry, lonely, or tired. A lot of people push themselves too hard at this time of year. A light snack and a power nap could be all that’s needed to get you back in the mood. If interpersonal things are weighing on you, talk with your loved ones about what’s going on and do your best not to let it bring you down. Instead, put your attention on the positive activities and people around you.

You don’t have to be a Santaholic to enjoy the holidays. But you can concentrate on the positives and reduce the stressors in your life. Allow the true meaning of the season to flow into your heart and head.

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About the Author: Barton Goldsmith
Honored by several professional associations, Dr. Barton Goldsmith is a multi-award winning syndicated columnist, radio host, psychotherapist, as well as a recognized keynote speaker. Since 2002, Dr. Goldsmith’s weekly column, Emotional Fitness, which is syndicated by Tribune News Service, and has been featured in over 5 s00 publications including The San Francisco Chronicle, The Chicago Sun-Times, The Detroit News, and Time Magazine, giving him a substantial readership. He has been interviewed on numerous TV/Radio shows and for many publications; his expert advice is regularly featured in Cosmopolitan Magazine and he is also the top blogger for Psychology Today, his Emotional Fitness blog has had over 34 Million views. Dr. Goldsmith has authored several books including; Emotional Fitness for Couples – 10 Minutes a Day to a Better Relationship was published by New Harbinger on Valentine’s Day 2006, and the sequel, Emotional Fitness for Intimacy - Sweeten and Deepen Your Love in Just 10 Minutes a Day released by New Harbinger in April '09. Dr. Goldsmith also published Emotional Fitness at Work – 6 Strategic Steps to Success Using the Power of Emotion, the third in the Emotional Fitness book series, that was released in September ’09 by Career Press, who also published 100 Ways to Boost Your Self-Confidence – Believe in Yourself and Others Will Too in May of 2010. His latest book, The Happy Couple, another New Harbinger publication was released on December 1st, 2013. His next book, “100 Ways to Overcome Shyness” was published by Career Press just last year. He has appeared on CNN, Good Morning America, Fox & Friends, CBS News, NBC News, Beauty and The Geek, The Ricki Lake Show and The Mancow Muller Show. Dr. Barton also served as the national spokesperson for the Mars Candy My M&M's Treasured Moments Challenge, and is currently the national spokesperson for the SunTender Pre-Marital Mentoring Program. “Dr. G” also hosted a weekly radio show on NPR affiliate KCLU, with nearly 90,000 listeners from Los Angeles to Santa Barbara. He received recognition from the City of Los Angeles for his work with survivors of the 1994 earthquake. His Emotional Fitness column was the winner of the Clark Vincent Award for Writing from the California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists. In addition, Dr. G received the Peter Markin Merit Award from the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists for his humanitarian efforts. He has also been named as the recipient of the Joseph A. Giannantonio II Award in recognition of his contributions as an Outstanding Educator in the field of Addiction Medicine, given by The California Association of Alcoholism and Drug Counselors, who also inducted him into The CAADAC Hall of Fame on October 1, 2011. Dr. Goldsmith was a National Merit Scholar and a Professor of Psychology at Ryokan College, Los Angeles. Dr. Goldsmith connects with audiences worldwide with his energetic, uplifting and fun communication style. Not a button-down shrink, “Dr. G” has a unique ability to inspire and entertain which leaves his readers, viewers and listeners always wanting more. “Dr. G” began working as a writer when his career in professional basketball was cut short because he only grew to five foot six inches tall.

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